Masturbation is also as important as the sex experience. Finding and knowing what feels good to you and what makes you reach your climax is a building block for a good sexual experience with a partner or not. For many women, the primary time they orgasm will coincide with the primary time they use a vibrator. Let’s hear from women who confessed how vibrators have changed their life.
How a Vibrator Can Change Your Life?
The first time I used a vibrator was with my boyfriend. I used to be 18 and while I could orgasm alone I couldn’t do so with him. When he tried to form me I felt guilty for taking too long. Scared he was becoming bored and in fact, those worries made me take longer. Hence, when he introduced a sex toy such as the vibrator to our sex life everything changed. Worried about him getting tired or bored because he wasn’t doing all the work. I felt liberated – ready to relax enough to orgasm. As soon as I realised I could orgasm with a vibrator. I became ready to do so from head also. It wouldn’t be overstating to say that vibrators changed my life.
– Tamara, 22
My vibrator changed my life by helping me in coming out as gay, which may sound weird – but it really did. I had been having totally decent sex with my boyfriend for ten years. He was great, we were good together, everything was fine. Then I was given a sex toy as a birthday gift by a lover and began to masturbate.
– Dorothy, 28
I had just turned 26 and hadn’t really touched myself much. I found that every single time I masturbated I assumed about women, then I started brooding about women once I wasn’t masturbating. It had been like that since, and it had opened something up inside me. I told my boyfriend that I used to be having doubts about my sexuality and he was incredibly supportive.
– Stacey, 27
When I saw an episode of Sex and the City where they were talking about vibrators as if everyone had one, so I used my card to order one online. I used to be terrified because I assumed my parents might see the package and realise it was a sex toy. When it arrived I used to be really nervous to use it.
– Glenda, 24
I had been having sex with my boyfriend for 2 years once I bought my vibrator and had never had an orgasm. I used it once and came very quickly. It had been an enormous relief once I realised that it had been the sex we’d been having which was the matter – not my body. I had assumed I couldn’t orgasm and never would. If it hadn’t been for that toy I’d have just accepted that. Now I still use a bullet (though a more high-tech one) during sex with partners to make sure that I can orgasm.
– Clara, 31
Magic Men AU believes that incorporating sex toys can boost the relationship and sexual satisfaction of anyone open to and respectful of their own and their partners’ inclinations and boundaries. What are you waiting for? Grab yours now and enjoy a pleasurable intimate moments with your partner!